You’re not hard to love

You’re not hard to love

She gave her heart with sincerity. No games. No masks. Just love—pure, patient, and real. She didn’t hold back. She didn’t calculate. She simply loved the way her heart was built to love: fully, deeply, and without hesitation. But the person she gave it to wasn’t ready. Not for her depth. Not for her devotion. Not for the kind of love that requires presence, effort, and care.

He didn’t know what to do with her heart. Not because she was too much—but because he was too unsure. He mistook her softness for weakness. Her loyalty for convenience. Her vulnerability for something to control. He didn’t understand that her love was a gift—not a guarantee. And instead of holding it gently, he fumbled it. He let it slip through his fingers like it was replaceable.

You just gave your heart to someone who didn’t know what to do with it.

She kept trying. She gave more. Explained more. Stayed longer. She thought if she just loved harder, he’d eventually understand. That he’d wake up and realize what he had. But love doesn’t work like that. You can’t teach someone how to value your heart. You can only offer it—and hope they’re wise enough to hold it with care. And when they’re not, the most loving thing you can do is take it back.

She didn’t leave out of anger. She left out of clarity. She realized that her heart was too precious to be mishandled. That her love was too sacred to be wasted. That her energy was too valuable to be poured into someone who didn’t know how to receive it. She didn’t stop loving—she started loving herself more.

She’s the kind of woman who now understands that not everyone is ready for real love. That some people only know how to take, not how to cherish. That some hearts are still learning, still healing, still hiding. And that’s okay. But she no longer stays where her love is misunderstood. She no longer gives her heart to someone who sees it as a burden instead of a blessing.

It still hurts sometimes. The memory. The effort. The way she gave everything and received so little in return. But she doesn’t carry regret—she carries wisdom. She knows now that her love wasn’t the problem. It was the mirror. And if someone couldn’t face what they saw in it, that’s not her fault. That’s their journey. Not hers.

So when someone says, “You just gave your heart to someone who didn’t know what to do with it,” She nods—not with bitterness, but with grace. Because she’s lived it. She’s healed from it. And she’s grown because of it. Her heart is still open—but now, it’s guarded. Not closed, just careful. Not cold, just clear.

And now, she lives with strength. With softness. With boundaries. She still believes in love—but not at the cost of herself. She still gives—but only to those who give back. And most of all, she still has a beautiful heart—but now, she protects it like the treasure it is.

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