In a shocking new claim, Kevin Federline says that his ex-wife Britney Spears would sometimes stand silently in their sons’ bedroom doorway at night—holding a knife. This disturbing detail is part of Federline’s upcoming memoir, You Thought You Knew, which is set to release on October 21, 2025. The book explores his life, his relationship with Spears, and the custody battle over their two sons, Sean Preston and Jayden James.

A Chilling Allegation
According to excerpts published by The New York Times, Federline writes that his sons told him about moments when Spears would quietly enter their room at night. They said she would stand in the doorway, watching them sleep, and sometimes holding a knife. When they woke up, she would say, “Oh, you’re awake?” and then walk away without explaining.
Federline claims this happened more than once. He says he kept quiet for years, but now feels it’s time to speak out because he fears for Spears’ well-being—and for the emotional safety of their children.
Britney Spears’ Response
A representative for Britney Spears did not immediately respond to the knife claim. However, her team has previously accused Federline of trying to profit off her now that child support payments have ended. They say he is using her name and their children’s stories to sell books and gain attention.
Spears has spoken publicly about her love for her sons. In a 2023 interview with PEOPLE, she said that becoming a mother was a “dream come true.” She also posted a photo of herself reuniting with Jayden in June, showing that she still wants to be close to her children.
A Complicated Family History
Spears and Federline were married from 2004 to 2007. Their relationship was filled with ups and downs, and their custody battle was long and painful. Over the years, Spears’ connection with her sons has been strained.
In 2022, Jayden gave an interview to The Daily Mail, saying that he believed their relationship could be fixed. “I just want her to get better mentally,” he said. “When she gets better I really want to see her again.”
Jayden also mentioned that his brother, Sean Preston, had asked Spears not to post his photos online. She did it anyway, which caused more tension between them.

Federline’s Growing Concern
In his memoir, Federline writes that he believes Spears is “racing toward something irreversible.” He says, “It’s become impossible to pretend everything’s OK. From where I sit, the clock is ticking, and we’re getting close to the 11th hour.”
He fears that if things don’t change, their sons will be left to deal with the consequences. He also criticizes the Free Britney movement, saying that while it helped end her 13-year conservatorship, it may have caused more harm than fans realize.
“Now, more than ever, [our children] need your support,” he writes. “I’ve been their buffer for years, but now it’s bigger than me. It’s time to sound the alarm.”
Fans React with Mixed Emotions
Many fans are shocked by the knife claim. Some believe Federline is exaggerating or trying to damage Spears’ reputation. Others say they are genuinely concerned and hope Spears is getting the help she needs.
Spears has posted several videos on social media in recent months, some of which show her dancing nude or behaving erratically. These posts have led to growing concern among fans and followers.
Final Thoughts
Kevin Federline’s memoir is sure to spark debate. The knife claim is deeply disturbing, and the emotional tension between Spears and her sons is heartbreaking. Whether you believe Federline or not, one thing is clear: this family has been through a lot.
As the release date approaches, fans will be watching closely. And as always, many hope that Britney Spears finds peace, healing, and the support she needs—not just as a pop icon, but as a mother and a human being.